Oh Boy

I have been riding MANY years, still have/ride my 1984 Sabre 1100 and it still screams despite its dated suspension. My R3R is a TOTALLY different bike as to power, handling and it weighs 200+ pounds more. No matter how good someone initially thinks they are, they should get some more experience before they "super-size". It isn't like a Sabre V-65 is a slouch...

FYI - I've told my daughter that my 3 year old grandson can have his pick of my bikes and will also have plenty of inheritance to buy whatever new bike he wants but that won't be until AFTER I'm dead. Although I love to ride, I don't want to see him ride a bike - just too many schmucks out on the roads and it's only getting worse...
 
I understand your point, but I didn't even have a license yet when I bought mine, 5 months on a CB750 and a learner's permit, LOL.

Depends on the person, if I had ridden when I was young I wouldn't be here, guaranteed.
 
i agree with this too
THE fact it is motorcycles are dangerous evrytime I ride its a dangerous expierince with all the immigrants driving like there are no traffic laws its a real mess dealing with the idiots in Philly as its now a disaster with crazy kids riacing around with Dirtbikes riding on the sidewalks and racing through traffic ignoring red lights and all traffic laws I dont want any of my loved ones driving a motorcycle or a car its so dangerous
 
The V65 is a very fast bike but its smaller and lighter than the Big ROCKET like you say I dont think new riders should ride Rockets they are for experts only
 
IF he has a bad attitude he shouldnt be riding ANY bike
 
Like you I have been riding since I was eight I'm now 54 I had lots of experience on the dirt. The 1100 was my first real street bike and I rode it for 8 years before getting the X and I still was not prepared for what the R3R can do. It has taken me 2 years to kinda sorta tame the beast.
IF he has a bad attitude he shouldnt be riding ANY bike
He still has that I can't die mentality. Which I understand I think we all had it at one point in our lives.
 
my son has major self control issue
Anyone with a self control problem doesn't belong on a motorcycle. Any motorcycle.

This quote is terrifying to me. I think if there is one thing you need to ride a motorcycle, it's self control.

Cut the fuel lines, remove some wiring. Whatever it takes. With his attitude and ego he will kill himself on a Vespa, let alone a Rocket.

I'm thankful I made it through my first year of riding unharmed. It was pure luck, and I was only on an old 200! It had a top speed of 65mph and took a minute to get there.

To me you've already made a huge mistake giving him the 1100. I'm not usually this blunt, but you asked.

I don't know what you can really do. Anyone who is hellbent on carelessness and self-destruction is hard to stop. He won't hear you. I guess all I can say from a parenting perspective is try to always stay positive and explain it's because you love him and your grandkid and want to keep them all safe and together, while standing firm on whatever you decide for the motorcycles.

Good luck.
 
Bottom line is you are doing the right trying to keep him off of an R3R as they say he needs more experience (IMHO)
 
I really thought his attitude had changed when his son was born and for a year or two he was different, but it seems he's stepped back into his 18 yr old mentality. The thing I have learned from this is I will never stop being a parent.
 

Yep, and if I had my Rocket3 at that point of my life, I very likely wouldn't be now here typing this reply....

I not only agree with Ishrub that the Sabre is likely way more bike than he should be on right now if that's his current state of self-control, I am more in ThisGuy's camp. There is no place on the road for someone on 2 wheels with self-control issues. Especially someone that's INEXPERIENCED along with self-control issues...