Simple solution, Boys!
Come meet and enjoy those you associate with online.
Hang out - ride with the small groups - ride your own agenda - go shopping - do what you want!
I mostly prefer to ride alone or with my brother, Dan, as we enjoy riding at the same pace.
I also enjoy the challenge and discipline of riding with a group. I do this frequently with my several different groups. My favorite is riding in a tight two up formation. with my former motor cop buddies. Group riding is indeed tiring and can get boring; but, it's a fine way to share the motor experience.