Yes, I've experienced this all through my (riding) life. Back in the 70's as a teenager I hung out with a local M/C club, they wanted me to "patch up" but no way was I going to be told what to do and when to do it.
Out on one ride one time the "pack" was going to slow so I just pulled out and took off.
Boy did I get a rev up for passing the "President" I told him he should speed up then there wouldn't have been a problem, besides, I wasn't patched so I didn't need to obey thier rules.
Was all to dumb for me.
