O.K., One more then I'm done.
Joe NEVER told you "Not to post" (so YOU go back and re-read)
He said, " if YOU raise a topic, YOU provide what it takes to make it easier for others. Otherwise, don't bother asking the question."
That is common courtesy.
Ever seen the commercial (think it's angies list or something) where a guy asks his neighbor:
Guy: "Hey know any good contractors?"
Neighbor: "Yeah, I might know a few."
Guy: "Good, Can you call them, get some quotes, compare them, and schedule one to come work on my house?"
I think maybe you were embarrassed to admit you didn't know how to do it, then got your a55 up on your back and got defensive about it. Again, we are all here to help each other out, NOT lash out.