I 100% agree.
Who is faster is kind of irrelevant (though I think the nod goes to you on equal mounts), I have to work to keep up with you and I've never once feel like "omg old man get out of the fing way" lol. A good pace is fun and a committed 10/10ths pace I wouldn't call fun, more scary as hell and a lot of work.
I much prefer riding 8/10 or 9/10 to full on at the limit on the Rocket. I can only recall actually pushing literally as hard as I can once on it, and was mentally done after about 30 minutes of looping up and down Highway 7 (bear canyon) because it's so much work to ride that hard.
When you start backing into corners while threshold braking on the front brake on the R3, welcome to "at the limit"

Either you'll back off or you'll crash, best not to flirt with disaster imho.
Riding at "your" limits is fun, riding at the bike's limits, not so much.