so anyway, the rubber bracket that holds the two relays up was of course dry rotted, but the starter relay was still upright. The flasher relay was kind of fallen over, but neither showed signed of having been wet. Unplugged the starter relay and grease still on the connectors, not a lot, but there on the tips and clean. Cleaned exterior and plastic faces with paper towel as best I could, plugged back in and WALA....... started right up! Holy crap, thanks to everyone for the ideas, I am so clueless when something doesn't work. I'll post a couple of pics but first >>>>> I'll get some more grease when I'm out and reclean and pack with grease BUT I am going riding today it is 65F and not even 10:00 yet!!!!!!! WOOOOOOWHOOOOOOOOOO
THANKS ALL!