Clutch life?

I have a 2008 R3T. Bought used with 21K miles. Just under 22k miles, the clutch cable broke. Had it replaced. Another 500 or so miles and when I tried to downshift from 4th to 3rd, the beast wouldn't go. I forced it before running out of room. Moved over to the turn lane. Pulled it into a parking lot and shut her off. Once stopped, it went into N. The clutch pin broke. replced clutch plates, spring and pin. Fingers doesn't use the clutch- right?
 
What do you mean by "Fingers doesn't use the clutch?"
 
I've shifted w/o using he clutch on many bikes ,cars ,trucks and never tore a transmission up.
 
I bought my rocket in 2004, still has the same clutch, working perfectly, so my guess is that is not normal
 
Clutch gets adjusted here

I am sorry if this sounds bad, but it sounds like it is imperative that you down load the manual and read before wrenching. Or cut to the quick and set the bike on fire

Do NOT forget to remove the batter cable - right WARPO?