I'm happy to try, soon as I figure out where to get one... tomorrow... but if fuse is bad wouldn't all the other circuits on that position be affected and would I be seeing 12 volts at the head light connectors?
[EDIT]
Did pull fuse in position 9, which is a 20A fuse for the upper and lower headlight beams and the starter solenoid. Looks normal... don't know why I said 10 before. It's 9. Anyway, it's obviously not blown, since the bike starts, but it looks good, too, clean in there, no issues... also a correction, the highbeam indicator light does operate normally, it lights during the ignition On sequence, and will light thereafter if I switch on the high beams. So it thinks the headlamps should be on, too.
A couple of years ago, I had an issue with the starter not working at random times. After much fooling around, I found the starter relay was dirty and somewhat dry- I cleaned and put a little dielectric grease in there and the starter problem disappeared. I don't know why this would be a potential cause? but I think I'll pull that again and check it. But it's interesting the starter and headlamps are on the same circuit protection fuse? No, no way that could be it.