I wondered about that possibility, but then why would I lose my tachometer reading when one cylinder cuts out? That doesn't compute, or I don't understand, anyway. I can only think the spade connector expands just slightly if it heats up, pretty sure which one if that's the case, got up early to try that and put it back together.
I'm not sure my buddy understood what I meant by low tension leads. He's been a motorcycle mechanic all his life, a wiz at some stuff, like carbs, but sometimes seems dense about other things. Sometimes he doesn't get stuff that seems common sense to me, and I'm no mechanic. I sure hope this is it, nothing worse than intermittent problems.