I'm reading between the lines here... Not that anyone is going to listen, but I disputed one payment, not the whole thing, and at this moment, I am working with my bank to only dispute the shipping and cost to re-work. The remainder will go back to the vendor. I have said multiple times that I am happy with the craftsmanship, and performance.... Not the coating. Had the vendor worked with me in anyway, things would have went a lot different. I have conducted myself in a honorable manner, never stooping to call names, or bad mouth the vendor. I am an honorable person, I am not trying to get over on anyone. And I am really disappointed in the way that I have been maligned on this forum, and then again on FB from the vendor and the others that didn't know the whole story.
You are right, how you handle yourself really says a lot about your character.