@Pete Another point I overlooked is when you mention dragging the peg feelers. It does not sound as if you lifted the back tire by rotating on any hard points. I do try hard to keep in my that there is a point of no return once the back tire goes airborne at speed in a curve.
A co-worker back in 2010 lost her husband on a CVO Electraglide this way. When his back tire came back down, the bike bucked him off, (high-side) and he was caught by a sturdy tree trunk. Not trying to be a downer here, just that there is a point where we all accept a certain amount of risk and knowing how to mitigate that risk by riding style and experience is our best hope to come out of a potential mishap.
@scot in exile I'll just say for now that mom was friendlier than the girlfriend was...