A bad relay is a bad relay - I bought 3 at once and 2 have failed. The other relays I have always used have lasted YEARS AND YEARS. Got to it yesterday - flicked it twice with my thumb and it unlocked.Simply a ****ty relay.
The previous one that failed resulted in both beams being on when I still had halogen bulbs in. Things got HOT. With LEDs you wont get as hot. Will simply put in an bog standard Automotive 40Amp relay today. The ones I had in were automotive too but micro 25Amp. The Micros seem inadequate for M/C use.
I'm going to talk to MotoGadget - they do some very tidy and tiny relays designed for bikes. 20Amp. Most of their stuff tends to be solid state switching - expensive but robust.
btw - discovered THIS late yesterday lurking on the Rigid website
http://www.rigidindustries.com/v/products/gallery/lightcomparison.html
Not entirely sure it compares apples with apples - but it's interesting.