I have had the Corbin bags on the the bike for 11,000 mi, with 95 % of that with a passenger....If she kicked the bags every time she got on, she would stay home.....It's not that hard if you pay attention and give a crap about the bike.....If she cant pay attention and don't give a crap about the bike , she stays home......My hunny loves to ride,and she loves the bike, so she duz what she needs to, to keep from staying home.....Seems to me that scuffing wives don't really give a crap about the bike.