I've been told that the standard rocket stator has a 55w output and will not keep up with the 4amp / 60w demand of the grips ... I've also been told that Triumph do have a 75w stator but this is not installed standard unless the bike comes with heated grips installed. ...
Those number are WAY off
The Standard, Roadster and Touring all use the same stator - this is rated to produce 37A at 2000 rom and 41A at 600rpm
37A is ~ 444W at a nominal '12V'
Sticking with current, a Standard or Roadster (with twin headlights) draws somewhere in the 16-18A range; a Touring model with the driving lamps on is going to be marginally more (or a bit less if they are off)
This is not accounting for 'momentary' loads such as Brake Light, Horn and Turn Signals - or indeed the cooling fan
But you can see there is a LOT of excess current available from the stator.... And 4A from heated grips puts a MINIMAL impact on that available capability.
I have not seen any reference to any 'high current' stator option but would be pleased to have info on this if indeed is the case.
If there is, it most certainly is not to cater for a heated grips load of 4A.
.... there have been suggestions to reduce the load and increase safety by replacing your H4s with LEDs. This is particularly true for the Roadsters with their dual headlights...
So that alone should easily give you heated grips with margin. And in my case - it's the grips, plus jacket, plus gloves....
We have to be careful in selecting some factors out of context: I myself have alluded to replacing lights with LEDs "to reduce load" but this is on CLASSICS (and NOT Roadsters) and the object is to reduce the current through the key-switch, nothing to do with the stator.
(I also made similar suggestion re Touring for same fundamental reason of the key-switch current although I also took pains to suggest I did not believe the current through was a problem on those models, however if someone wished to reduce that current, an LED was one good way to do so)
Not withstanding that in their own right, many of the currently available LEDs simply offer much better lighting.
But specifically to Roadsters, there is no real electrical advantage (or reliability improvement) in converting to LEDs - unless a user is really tapped out on that 37A limit with multiple accessory lights and two sets of full heated gear (rider plus passenger)
As far as reducing load to "make more available for accessories", that should not typically be necessary as illustrated above (but there may be exceptions).
Also important to note that reducing any load used by the bike does absolutely nothing to the current load on the stator, which is always at maximum with the OEM Shunt R/R; the R/R is already burning all that excess available power.
Nor however does a Series R/R give you any more power available for accessories - however it does greatly reduce the current generated by the stator, therefor influencing its reliability and longevity.