With a raw bike like the R3, throttle control is the answer as long as no other factors are in the equation. I personnaly prefer the bikes without all the computer neutering "aids" (okay, I do accept ABS but that does affect my engine delivery). Road debris, oil or other fluids, small critters all have a negative affect on tire friction especially in a curve. Throttle and speed control maybe be the answer in most loose situations.
Now about your title of the thread, I had my first perplexed and curious moment when in my teens, my girlfriend's mom started flirting with me. But that tale is for another time...