Hello Groo and welcome form Virginia. If you like riding around with any distance, I vote for the R3T. I have a 2014 with 36K miles now. If you are more of a weekender or just bar hopper, then the R3R will complete your life just fine. I know many will tell you the R3T was detuned, I prefer to call it retuned for another purpose which works quite well for the Touring. And don't think that the R3T will not pull the front wheel off the ground for it will (just not in a pretty way).
Where do you hang your hat now? Put it under your icon and more folks will be able to help you when you buy your Rocket.
By the way, what other bikes have you ridden in your past? Most current riders here have started on something else with only a few taking the Rocket as their first ride.