Well, brother - I paint - have had it happen, know many others that have had it happen. If that's the case for you, Great

You've been fortunate then.
People assume that anything that has clear coat on it is protected by some magic shield - It's not - all paint, including the clear coat is not solid like glass, it is porous so products WILL build up & embed deep into the paint/clear coat. PERIOD
I'll make a deal with you Sir: I won't tell you how to build a racing engine, as that is your area of expertise. won't argue with you on anything along that subject. So please don't argue with me about the paint category.
Thank you in advance
RESPECTFULLY..................