The way the diagrams read they should be compatible, but there is a diode in there somewhere on each and diodes only read resistance in one direction, and infinite in the other direction. Try swapping the leads and read again. Read the other the same way, and see if you get a readable resistance with one polarity and infinity with the opposite polarity. That said, it is not uncommon for temperature sensors to die, so make that your next avenue of attack, once you are sure you have a functioning relay.