Allan, I've been following this thread and wishing I could contribute. I know how frustrating it must be.
My first thought was the stepper motor because I had a similar issue and a replacing it fixed the problem. You said that was not it though.
There were two other issues you reported, one being heavy fuel smell after it shut down and attempted restart. So of the three things needed for combustion, air/fuel/spark, it appeared that you somehow lost spark. The other is that they found corrosion in the electrical (can't recall where you said in your post) which suggests there might have been additional areas of corrosion.
Replacing the ECU and harness should fix the problem and hopefully did.