I suspect all but one or two captains have enough life experience with performance (and no performance) machines to realize they have their characteristics, and we have our expectations, and for us there is enough overlap to plunk down the money and the time, make the machine in our own likeness, and enjoy it on our terms, and if on this forum, generally enjoy the company.
And for most, we won't have this forever. Time waits for no one, and the same interests that changed to make us meet up with the Rockets, will likely change again either by choice or by life circumstances. Just look at some of the old threads, and click on the handles, and see the "Last seen" dates, often years gone by. One can see the passion the shared, and moved on.
So beauty here, as elsewhere, is in the eye (and wallet) of the beholder.
I dare say you're preaching to the choir here.