Long gone now, but when I was young, and had a tour of the Anniston Army Depot, where in World War II army armor was overhauled, there were interesting tools on the wall. A thoughtful guide related how the plant workforce was almost entirely women. The tanks, having been designed in a different era, with assumptions about different body strength, had fasteners that needed large tools. What the women did to manage, was learn how to cooperate when needed, and ask for extensions for the tools to be able to apply greater leverage. Even though the women had all been sent home, the tools were still there as a reminder of a great, and successful effort.
When I do my own wrenching, I'm reminded of the childhood exposure, and find myself from time to time, applying those lessons to my own situations. Most recently, with the Becker stand, I purchased the longest extension in the Snap On catalog, and it cost me a pretty penny. Yet, where I am unable to lift the bike over the "hump" with the short extension supplied with the lift, I am able to relatively easily do so with the long extension.
Perhaps this might give one insight into how several people have "how to" video, and experience saying, "This is easy"; while another might yet choose an alternate approach..