WELCOME! I'm confident either would serve you well. I'm a touring owner and it meets my needs of power and comfort rolled into one. The factory touring is de-tuned as compared to the Roadster but that's an easy fix with a new tune (using the free TuneECU... you need a cable and computer/android device) and free flowing pipes. With my wife in mind, the touring with it's backrest and passenger floor boards makes it rather comfortable for her. I also prefer the hard-side lockable panniers. A Roadster can easily be made into whatever you're looking for and made comfortable for your wife (depending on upgrades); so it comes down to personal preference and the bargain you can snag. I would recommend you look for ABS.
What have you had in the past?
Here's my girl; upgraded over time... with a few more chrome pieces just waiting for me to put them on...
-MIG