I had to take a detour sunday while riding because the initial road was closed. That was ok but I got behind about 15 Harley riders in which they was in a club. They all had on vests with their club name at the top on the back of the vests a cross in the middle and "Jesus Saves" at the bottom. After a little while riding behind them on curvy mountain roads I noticed how dangerous they was riding together. I have never seen anything like it. They was in a straight line most of the time and they was following each other extremely to close. I am serious when I say close because I thought there front tires was going to touch the back of the lead rider in front of them. I fell back after I saw this. Then noticed they had this long "rope" hanging from their handle bars on the left side. I mean the rope was almost touching the ground. I was like "WTF is that for?" They had jeans and boots but no helmets. If these people owned Hondas I believe they would all drive the same and have ropes hanging from their handle bars. What I'm saying is posers don't know how to dress properly and ride properly. I ride with Triumph riders and have never seen us ride as close and dangerous as these folks was doing. One guy must have broke down because he came to a stop on the right side of the road. One by one everyone wanted to turn around and go check on there buddy. I have never seen such unorganized behavior as that. After they all finally decided to pull over I dropped mine down a gear and blasted on by shaking my head.
Now on the proper attire. My motto is "Dress for the slide not the ride!" If you ever had your foot crushed by a falling motorcycle which would be better to have on your foot? A motorcycle boot or sneaker? How about a pair of gloves where the ring finger is sewn together to the pinky with a piece of leather. This keeps your pinky from rolling back during impact. Grab your pinky and pull it back until it's uncomfortable then imagine if your pinky goes back even further how would that feel?
I wear race boots, pants with armor, leather jacket with armor, race gloves, and full face race helmet. Maybe I'm paranoid but I like to keep my skin where it is now and my bones in one piece. I realize that all this isn't going to help all the time but I've got a better chance of not getting hurt as bad. I wrecked my sportbike I once had and if I didn't have all the armor on I would have gotten hurt. My helmet smacked the ground as I went down over the handle bars. I landed on my back in which the jacket I had on had back protection. So it really doesn't hurt to go overboard on riding gear.
Message received - loud and clear. Boots it is, just gotta figure out which ones. Hopefully they make me look more like the pirate I always wanted to be (jk).
Where boots, paints, a good shirt, gloves, and a decent brain bucket as a minimum. I add a mesh jacket with armor (Field Sheree). I have seen to many shattered skulls, and bodies ripped apart when they meet the pavement. Most of the time when the rider and or passenger did not have the proper gear, they suffered the consequences. Every thing from death, to bones that have been ground into the pavement. Rarely minor injury's. The wife gets pissed because I make here where the gear as well.
The last time I lost it, I had a bruised butt and ripped a thumb nail off. That was at about 65 when I hit the ground. But I had on the proper gear and stopped at the fence. No broken bones, no road rash. I got lucky! I would of been a statistic with out the full face helmet. Bought a new one the next day.
That all being said YOU are an adult (assuming). You know what you need to do to keep your self safe. No one can force you (wife maybe)to do what you know is wright.