"But to say you couldn't be prouder because he's dead is an insult."
well this does give good reference about you. the statement you misinterpret means they are proud of his actions. you knew this. no one is "proud" of the end result to him of his heroism. saddened , not proud.
you seek to enflame for whatever your reason.
i personally find it offensive.
If I misinterpret what someone is trying to say and post about that misinterpretation and how I disagree with it, it's not ok. But, if you misinterpret what I say and posts about how you are offended, that alright? How does that work?
I sought in no way to inflame anyone or anything, that would be your misinterpretation. Should I judge your character now?
Not everyone here is going to agree on things, and nobody has to, so why would you (or others) jump down my throat about it?
Does everyone have to share the same views as you? Did I jump down RatBoy's throat about what he said? No, I simply said I disagree. I didn't judge him or tell him how his statements say all I need to know who he is. I summarized why I disagreed.
When you asked me to clarify what I stated, I concluded it with, "Just doesn't sound right to me." Which happens to be a common problem on a lot of forum based sites, the intent that someone had when they were typing was lost in translation.
Unfortunately, as many times as I go back and reread, it still doesn't sound right to me, despite your explanation of his intent.