Are you sure they are really that high? Sometimes automotive LEDs rating is as per an incandescent equivalency (in terms of light output) rather than the ACTUAL power consumed. So study the specs carefully
Yes. If your numbers are correct. The max spec current from the generating system is 37A at 2k rpm and 41A at 6K rpm
Don't also discount the fact that where your current is already lower, at low engine speeds around town, when your fan kicks on that is another very large drain.
Actually, the stator heat will be exactly the same regardless of the bike's load - because of the way a Shunt Regulator works, the stator ALWAYS produces the maximum current which is either expended in the bike load directly, or via the shunt path in the R/R.
The stator also saturates at the max spec, and once the current demand exceeds that saturation, it absolutely cannot fulfill that.
Well recognize that the plugs are not a constant load and indeed only two (and its really only the power consumed by one single coil) at one small part of the cycle are actually consuming current at one time.
A bigger component of constant current is going to be the Fuel Pump.
Not counting anything for lighting I would estimate the standing current when running to be somewhere around the 10A mark.
A Roadster does not route any current for lighting through the key-switch regardless.