Let me see if I can help....
Firstly, you are essentially going to wire two circuits: (1) the power-and ground circuit that's going to power the horn when the button is pushed, and (2) the power and ground circuit that's going to energize the relay.
If you look carefully at the relay pins you will see that they are numbered.
85-86 power the relay.(2)
30-87 power the horn circuit(1)
Circuit #2
You have to disconnect the wires plugged into the existing horn and feed them back to where the relay is going to mounted. You will need to connect those wires to pins (85-86).
Before you go any further, test the circuit by switching the key on and pushing the horn button and listening the 'clicking'... that's the relay opening and closing.
Circuit #1
GROUND
Next, will need to connect a wire to the black terminal on your battery. Connect that wire to ground wire on the horn.
POWER
Then, connect another wire to the red terminal on your battery, and connect it to the #30 pin on the relay.
Then connect a wire from the pin 87 on the, and connect it the other pin on the horn.
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You should be good at this point. Your existing horn circuit (#2) is energizing the relay when the horn button is being pushed. And, you are getting power through the relay (#1) when the relay is energized.
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Single Pole Double Throw (SPDT), Single Pole Single Throw (SPST) Automotive Relays
Note: Go outside to test the horn.